Saturday, April 26, 2008

Enough???

Why? I wonder this too often... One should not be too tolerant... It comes back and hurts you way more than it would if you knew when to say enough...

6 years ago, my friend asked me "Sabah, when would you say 'ENOUGH'?"... He had heard this question in a Brad Pitt & Julia Roberts movie. It didnt take me more than a few seconds to say "Never!!! I think if you care enough, you can find a way... I would keep trying..." Life has taught me otherwise...

So you may ask, what is wrong in keeping on trying?? In fact, isn't it great that you never give up... I would reply that "giving up" is very different... I am the biggest believer of the school of thought that teaches that nothing is impossible if you try hard enough... But there is also a very thin line between reality and insanity... And more often than not, I have found myself at the wrong side of that line...

I am 23 years old and I still find it difficult to say "no" to people... I think it is rude... Or maybe, I thought it was... Very few people understand the right time to say "ENOUGH"... Some say it too early while some like me, wont stop trying...

Its a great attitude when it comes to work... I end up getting what I want that way... But people are another story... To sum it up, life works wonders on you... It keeps teaching you the same lesson in different ways till you finally understand and accept it... But by then, its time for another...

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